mastering fearless decision making
Make a committed decision
You can’t make a decision until you feel you’re ready? But, if not now then when? When do you think you’re going to be ready? If you’re waiting for that right moment it may never come. What’s going to happen though is the time will pass and this is the only thing we can be sure of. And how much time do you think you have?
❌So, instead of waiting until you’re truly ready (you become ready in the process)
✔️Just start..take little steps towards whatever decision you have to make.
You don’t need to jump off the cliff - but you need to start moving. Once you make a committed decision your energy changes - it doesn’t mean that in that moment you have this all figured out! It means that you decided to give it a go and trust that whatever you’re about to do is going to work out - in the best way possible.
“You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” Zig Ziggler
Learn the attitude for success
Decision making is part of your behaviour. And your behaviour is based on your belief system. It is so important in the decision making process to think about the outcome that you want to achieve before you even start and to make sure you start! Because when you believe that you cannot do something, when you expect failure not only you set yourself for failure but most importantly you probably won’t even try.
✔️So, set yourself for the feeling of success before you’re successful.
✔️Imagine yourself making that decision before you make it! Envision the moment of decision.
✔️Ask yourself how would it feel when you made that decision with ease and everything did turn out as you wanted it to? Confident, proud, happy, brave, calm? What is that feeling? Feel it, practice it, decide!
Face the fear & do it anyway!
Many times in life we are afraid to make that decision forgetting that not deciding is still a decision. We let our indecisiveness control our life because we are simply afraid to face the consequences in case it didn’t turn out as we wanted to. The mind naturally creates the worst case scenario.
✔️But ask yourself: what is the price you’re going to pay IF you don’t make that decision? Can you feel the difference?
“Fear not, I opened a door and fear was no more”
Be open to the unknown. Accept, and believe that once you decide you are going to receive absolutely everything you need in the right moment – not any second later and not any second earlier. Trust the process, stick to your decision even if all the odd seems to be against you. Sometimes what you want is not necessarily what you need, so whatever challenges you may be facing know that you can turn them into opportunities - only if you decide to see them this way. Understand that everything in every moment has it’s purpose that suppose to help you grow forming the path.
“The fear of making a decision is the result of fearing to make a mistake – the truth is, the fear of mistakes has a greater impact on you than making the mistakes.” — Bob Proctor
Dream & Fail BIG!
Don’t be afraid to fail in the process. Remember, that there are no wrong decisions - every step you take is an important piece of this puzzle. Not making decision to dream big already sets you for failure! But let’s be honest it’s not the wins but the failures that really build our true potential! Because if you failed it means you tried! So don’t let the fear of failure stop you from making decision and achieving your dreams! Your mind can be your friend or an enemy - you choose which one you want to party with! It’s hard to make any decision based on minimum desire. So make sure you dream & you dream big!
✔️What is the big vision behind your decision? Deeply feel how much it means for you to achieve what you want. The bigger the dream the easier is to decide, trust me.
✔️Claim what’s already yours! Magic happens to those who believe it! If anything was possible what would you love? How would your life look like after you decide?
✔️Allow making mistakes - if you’re going after something that you really want it’s so worth it! Always remind yourself why did you start in the first place and don’t back off when things go off the track a little bit
“Don’t let fear limit your potential. I would never have known what I could achieve without allowing myself to dream BIG!” – Nick Vujicic
Don’t believe everything you see
We operate based on what we think and how we think controls what and how we do everything. So, know that if you are afraid to make that decision, your choice is not based on the reality but on your perception of that reality, how you see yourself, where you think you are, and what you think you are capable of being and/or doing. The truth is that perception most of the time has nothing to do with the real you and your true potential & may cause missing out on some really important factors!
✔️Use the power of imagination to create whatever you want regardless of what you see in front of you.
✔️You must feel worthy to claim the best of you & for you before you get it! Introduce a positive self talk that would support your decision making abilities. Decide today to see and embrace the best within yourself!
✔️Use the power of the choice and in every moment you can make a decision to be the person and to live the life you want! So what do you want? Who do you want to be?
"Behind every great achievement is a dreamer of great dreams"
Always follow your heart
The secret to enjoyable decision making is to follow your heart! When you try to justify your decision most likely you are going to do what you think you should do. But do your dreams really require an explanation? You don’t need to understand it as long as you feel it. When you feel it in your heart, your heart starts to guide you. And I’m not even talking about big visions!
🪄If something doesn’t feel right - change it!
🪄If you feel you’d love to do something - do it!
🪄Decide today to improve the quality in every area of your life - start making small decisions to implement the habit of doing it!
When you promise yourself to do something and you’ stick to it - it will increase your confidence because you’re simply gain trust in yourself and your abilities to move forward.
So, start from little steps, small decisions - keep building your decision making process, keep building yourself! Don’t push yourself into a deep water drowning in uncertainty. Know that every habit needs time to implement! But you need to start to implement every habit!
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“Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll land among the stars” Norman Vincent Peale
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To your success!
Aga
Transformational Coach & Tapping Professional